A new campaign ‘Every Day is Everything’ featuring The Traitors star Roxy Hotchkiss is encouraging more people to consider adoption and discover how the everyday moments of family life can mean everything to a child.
Roxy Hotchkiss, who appeared on the BBC’s hit programme The Traitors, has spoken openly about her experience of adoption and the difference having a permanent family made to her childhood.
Roxy and Judy are among those featured in Every Day is Everything, a new film from the national You Can Adopt campaign, which celebrates the ordinary moments of family life and the extraordinary difference they can make to children who have experienced uncertainty.
Roxy said: “Being adopted by my mum gave me the stability, security and unconditional love every child should have – hearing the words ‘love you’ before bed each night and knowing someone is always going to be there for me. For a child who has experienced instability, those things mean everything.”
Judy Wilson, Roxy’s adoptive mum said: “Through my work, I’d seen first-hand how much children need stability, love and a place to truly belong. But it wasn’t until I became Roxy’s mum that I really understood how powerful the ordinary, everyday moments can be. As soon as I met Roxy, I fell in love with her, and so did my three boys. From that moment on, she was simply our daughter.
“Looking back, it’s the smaller things that stand out most to me – hearing the children laughing together, sharing family meals and simply being there for one another day after day. Life wasn’t perfect. Our house was busy, noisy and often chaotic, but it was full of love, fun and support. Those everyday moments helped Roxy feel secure, valued and that she truly belonged.
“Adopting Roxy was the best thing I’ve ever done. Seeing the confident, caring woman and mum she has become reminds me that every child deserves the security and sense of belonging that growing up in a permanent family provides.”
For the Diagrama Adoption team, Roxy’s story is a powerful reminder of the positive impact adoption can have. Adoption gives children who cannot return to their birth families the opportunity to grow up in a safe, secure and permanent family, surrounded by the love and consistency that can help them thrive.
Kate Patel, Head of Fostering and Adoption at Diagrama Foundation, said: “Roxy’s story beautifully illustrates what adoption can give a child. It is not about grand gestures; it is about being there, day after day, and creating the ordinary family moments that many of us take for granted.
“We want people to see adoption as a positive journey and to understand that you do not have to be a perfect parent, own your own home or have everything worked out before you get in touch. What matters is being able to offer a child love, commitment, patience and a safe place to call home.”
The need for more adoptive families remains significant. New analysis published as part of the You Can Adopt campaign highlights a growing difference between the number of children needing permanent families and the number of people coming forward to adopt.
For Roxy, those everyday moments of family life became part of the childhood she could rely on. For another child waiting for adoption, they could be the beginning of a completely new chapter.
Diagrama Adoption supports children and families throughout the adoption journey, from the initial enquiry and assessment through to post-adoption support and they are encouraging anyone who has ever wondered whether they could adopt to take that first, informal step to find out more at one of their online information events.
To find out more about adoption visit www.diagramaadoption.org.uk and to sign up to a free Adoption Information Event visit www.diagramaadoption.org.uk/events
About You Can Adopt
#YouCanAdopt is a nationwide adopter recruitment programme, which aims to raise awareness and increase understanding of modern adoption. The programme is delivered by Adoption England.
Every Day is Everything film – https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1Mw9u_RMD1Mqo7absvvs9kuEDS-JmpKMe?usp=sharing
You Can Adopt campaign report – https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1T954ErV-OoGZw1RThansf3IhyaOs8oYD
About Diagrama Adoption
Diagrama Adoption is a voluntary independent, adoption agency, dedicated to finding loving families who can offer a permanent home for children across London, Kent, Sussex and Surrey.
The Diagrama Adoption agency is small enough to offer a personalised and friendly adoption experience while benefitting from the expertise and security that comes with being part of the larger Diagrama charitable foundation. www.diagramafoundation.org.uk
Diagrama Adoption welcomes all adoption enquiries regardless of age, faith, sexuality, ethnicity or whether you are single or a couple.
To find out more about adopting with Diagrama visit www.diagramaadoption.org.uk
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About Diagrama Foundation
Diagrama Foundation is a Kent based charity that supports vulnerable children, young people, and adults to live their best life.
Their services include
- A Supported Living Service, which cares for adults with learning disabilities, in seven schemes across Bromley and one scheme in Mid Sussex helping them to develop skills and confidence to live in their own house either on their own or with others.
- Astley Day Centre provides a service in Bromley for adults with learning disabilities and complex needs.
- A residential home in Orpington ‘Cabrini House’ which promotes the development of core skills for adults with learning disabilities so that they can lead independent lives integrated within their community.
- Duckyls Farm, a 100-acre care home in West Sussex for residents with learning disabilities,
- Diagrama Community Services at Duckyls Farm, a day care provision for people with a learning disability, physical and sensory impairment, acquired brain injury and/or autism.
- Edensor Care Centre in Clacton on Sea, a nursing and dementia care home, which supports vulnerable residents to live life to the full.
- Diagrama’s voluntary adoption agency and not-for-profit fostering service cares for children in London, Kent, Sussex and Surrey.
Many vulnerable children and adults don’t get the support they need to develop their true potential, but the Diagrama team know that when someone has time and belief invested in them, they come alive, because that investment has made them feel valued and worthy.
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